Is there any way to get a video within a slide to auto-play? (and not fill the slide?).

I want it just like the demo site here on the third slide;
http://themeforest.net/item/velocity-feature-rich-drupal-theme/full_scre...

but have the video in the slide just start playing at the size that it is.
I don't want the video to go into "full-slide" mode.

If it can't be done now, what could I do to get you guys to add it?
I think it would helpful for a lot of your customers.

Thanks,